Many people avoid talking about money due to deep-rooted fears and social taboos, but understanding these reasons can help break the silence. Since the people that talk about money have money, well, it’s time we had a talk!
Money is a topic that influences almost every aspect of our lives, yet it often feels taboo to discuss. Whether it’s with family, friends, or even professionals, many people avoid conversations about finances. Why is this the case? Let’s dive into the top five reasons people shy away from talking about money.
1. Fear of Judgment
One of the biggest reasons people avoid money conversations is the fear of being judged. Talking about income, savings, or debt can feel like exposing your financial “report card” to the world.
- What they fear:
- Earning too little compared to peers.
- Having too much debt.
- Not saving enough for retirement.
This fear can lead to a reluctance to discuss financial struggles or goals, perpetuating a cycle of silence and potentially poor financial habits.
2. Cultural and Social Taboos
In many cultures, discussing money is seen as impolite or inappropriate. From childhood, people are often taught to avoid discussing finances in public or even at home. This creates a societal norm where money becomes a private topic.
- Common messages:
- “It’s rude to ask someone how much they make.”
- “Never discuss money at the dinner table.”
These ingrained beliefs make money a sensitive subject, even among close friends or family.
3. Feelings of Shame or Guilt
Many people feel ashamed of their financial situation, whether it’s living paycheck to paycheck, accumulating credit card debt, or making poor investment decisions. Shame and guilt can be powerful deterrents to open discussions about money.
- Scenarios that trigger shame:
- Not being able to afford certain expenses.
- Past financial mistakes, such as overspending or falling for scams.
- Feeling like you’re not where you “should” be financially at a certain age.
This emotional barrier often prevents people from seeking help or advice, even when they need it most.
4. Lack of Knowledge or Confidence
Another major obstacle is a lack of financial literacy. People often avoid discussing money because they feel unqualified to do so. They may not understand terms like compound interest, credit scores, or investment strategies and worry about looking ignorant.
- What they might think:
- “What if I say something wrong?”
- “I don’t even know where to start with money conversations.”
This lack of confidence can discourage open dialogue and lead to missed opportunities for learning and growth.
5. Fear of Conflict
Money is one of the leading causes of arguments in relationships. Discussing finances can reveal differences in priorities, values, or spending habits, leading to tension or outright conflict.
- Common conflict triggers:
- Splitting bills or expenses in relationships.
- Family disagreements about inheritances.
- Friendships strained by loans or shared financial responsibilities.
Many people choose silence over transparency when it comes to money to avoid uncomfortable arguments.
Breaking the Silence: Why Talking About Money Matters
Avoiding conversations about money doesn’t make financial challenges disappear. In fact, it often exacerbates them. Open discussions about finances can lead to:
- Better financial planning and decision-making.
- Improved relationships through shared understanding.
- Reduced stress by addressing money-related concerns directly.
Breaking the taboo around money starts with small steps: having honest conversations, seeking education, and normalizing the topic.
What about you? Are you ready to open up about money? Recognizing these barriers is the first step toward breaking them down—and creating a healthier, more open relationship with your finances.
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Charles Bivona Jr., aka Coach JP Money, is a business strategist, financial coach, and founder of CoachJPmoney.com. A lifelong entrepreneur, he launched his first real estate deal at 17 and went debt-free by 1998. Since then, he has built national media brands, advised small businesses, and helped clients grow online using smart strategy, digital tools, and creative grit.
An expat living in Baja, Mexico, Charles also writes and produces music as Johnny Punish and lives off-grid at Hacienda Eco-Domes, a sustainable retreat he built with his wife. Through providing small business services, coaching, writing, and podcasting, he’s on a mission to help others win their future—on their terms.
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